A Matchmaking Love Story: Lessons for Finding Your Encore Love
Brad & Denise
“We have been having so much fun together it seems too good to be true. We have been with each other whenever possible. This is the happiest I have been in a long, long, long time. I can’t get the smile off my face.”
As featured in The New York Times, Selective Search clients Brad and Denise’s encore love story began when each, tired of online dating, decided to pursue a different approach. Inspired by new beginnings, Denise took a leap of faith as part of her New Year’s resolution, leading her to Brad, who was looking for a connection with lasting spark. They quickly became inseparable, sharing long conversations, adventures, and eventually, their home. Twelve years and countless memories later, Brad proposed on a meaningful trip abroad, and they celebrated their love with two beautiful ceremonies surrounded by friends and family.
Love stories such as Brad and Denise’s serve to inspire and encourage those on their own journey for love. From their story, three key lessons can be discovered:
Be open to a new approach. Frustrated with online dating, Brad and Denise each turned to a matchmaking service, willing to try a different method to find a lasting connection.
Have patience and trust the process. Brad explored a few other matches before the spark ignited between him and Denise. But shortly after meeting, their love blossomed and they began making travel plans together.
Let love grow. Although Brad and Denise originally did not have plans to marry again, the timing felt right. Relationships can go in many different directions; it’s important to be open to where the relationship takes you.
As we reflect upon the prior year and look toward the future, Brad and Denise's story continues to act as an inspiring reminder to prioritize your love life. Whether you're seeking your first great romance or an encore love, have faith that your perfect match may be just around the corner.