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Say hello to your last first date.

As the nation’s leading elite matchmaking firm, Selective Search works with quality individuals of all ages, ethnicities, religions, and status who value their time, reputation, personal privacy, and finances.

Love knows no boundaries. Explore our curated services, tailored to meet your unique preferences. Whether you're seeking a partner who shares your faith, lifestyle, or aspirations, our matchmaking services ensures every match is a step closer to lasting happiness.

Our goal is to introduce you to the love of your life, while you’re busy living your life. Spend your time falling in love – not searching for it.

Connect with our expert Matchmakers today to begin your journey.

The Selective Search Advantage

Founded in 2000, Barbie Adler created Selective Search as a way for accomplished singles to find love. Now standing as the leading luxury matchmaking firm, the success of Selective Search has brought thousands of couples together.

Selective Search. Proven Results.

success rate

87%

4000+

happy couples

love at first date

34%

We’ve helped thousands of couples find love. See the proven results of our Meet Your Future Process.

Learn more about Selective Search

Why Selective Search?

  • Best-in-class Matchmakers

  • Proven Meet Your Future process

  • Commitment-minded individuals

  • Concierge level service

  • Invaluable results

Real Results

With over 150 years of combined experience, paired with their sophistication and passion, our Matchmakers have remarkable intuition for creating meaningful lasting relationships.

Don’t take our word for it - hear what our happy clients are saying.

We’re Here to Help

Finding love is serious business.

You have questions - we have answers. Visit our FAQs section for more information. Or if you prefer, contact us at 866-592-1200.