ELITE MATCHMAKING SERVICES

You deserve excellence in all aspects of your life, including love.

Our professional matchmakers are dedicated to building long-term, loving relationships for busy, successful individuals who value their time and privacy. Outsource your love life to the experts.

As the nation’s premier matchmaking company, Selective Search leads the industry in achieving results for its clients.

4000+

Happy Couples

87%

Success Rate

A+

Better Business Bureau

100% Customized

Our luxury programs are expertly tailored for every client.

100%
Commitment-Minded

We are dedicated to building long-term, loving relationships.

100% Confidential

No online profiles, because
your personal life is
exactly that, personal.

A Match Made Just For You

Every client is supported by a team of seasoned professionals, including Matchmakers and researchers.

Premium, fee-based search

Complimentary, private profile

Not sure which program is right for you? Explore our matchmaking services.

The Story of Selective Search

At Selective Search, we believe in the magic of a perfectly matched partnership. Our origin story is a testament to this belief, born out of a desire to transform the landscape of luxury dating and professional matchmaking.

Selective Search is revolutionizing the way people find love.

Our Meet Your Future process was expertly developed from an expansive study of relevant industries such as: executive search, psychology, traditional matchmaking, and sociology. This innovative process has allowed Selective Search to be the leader in the luxury matchmaking industry for nearly 25 years.

“I can honestly say that I have never been happier in my life. How can I put a price on finding someone I may spend the rest of my life with? I would recommend Selective Search to anyone with the commitment to finding their last first date!”

— Paul & Lisa

“Selective Search is not a dating service. Rather, founder Barbie Adler and her team of 20 Matchmakers conduct exhaustive, highly customized searches to find love for people with high standards and far more money than time.”

— Inc. Magazine

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