CHARLOTTE MATCHMAKER SERVICES

The love of your life is waiting

Selective Search has over 150 years of combined Matchmaker experience and has successfully matched over 4,000 couples. Ranked as the best matchmaking service in Charlotte for professionals, Selective Search Matchmakers have proven results building long-term loving relationships for busy, successful individuals who value their time and privacy. 

There are many matchmaker services available in the Charlotte area, but there are none that safeguard your time, privacy, and preferences like Selective Search. Unlike other dating sites or apps, Selective Search is dedicated to building long-term loving relationships for busy professionals just like you. 

Dating in Charlotte

Did you know that Charlotte, North Carolina, is among the most sought-after cities for singles seeking authentic connections? Charlotte entices professionals with its burgeoning finance sector, rich history from the American Revolution, dynamic arts presence, and a culinary landscape that competes with the nation's finest. 

Understanding the demanding schedules of professionals, we've curated a premium list of top-notch restaurants and distinctive date ideas in the Charlotte area. 

Selective Search. Proven Results.

4000+

happy couples

success rate

87%

34%

love at first date

Why Choose A Charlotte Matchmaker?

A Personalized Approach To Love

Dating apps rely heavily on algorithms and standardized profiles, with an estimated 49 million people in the United States using these services. In contrast, professional matchmaking offers a distinctly personal touch. It is a method meticulously tailored to your unique desires, values, and dreams. Rather than generic connections, matchmaking provides personalized romance. Balancing intuition and technology, luxury matchmaking firms excel at curating personalized matches. 

Access To Exclusive Singles

Elite matchmaking services provide a gateway to a select network of quality and accomplished singles, with potential matches undergoing rigorous vetting to ensure a shared alignment of goals and lifestyle. Notably, we have a proprietary network of over 250,000 high-caliber singles.  

Eliminating Challenges of Dating Apps

Online dating comes with its fair share of challenges. Whether it’s fake profiles, catfishing, or the pressure of crafting the perfect online persona, online dating can make the search for love a stressful experience for many. Professional matchmakers cater to busy professionals who don’t have time to waste on dates without potential. Matchmakers set themselves apart from online dating by conducting comprehensive background checks and ensuring the authenticity of all members, providing a more secure and authentic dating experience for their clients. 

Guaranteed Confidentiality & Reputation Management

Online dating often involves sharing personal information with strangers, leading to concerns about data security. In a study, 53% of online daters reported worries about their personal data's safety on dating apps and websites. In contrast, matchmaking services prioritize privacy and security, offering peace of mind, especially to high-profile individuals who value their safety and confidentiality in the digital dating world. 

Relationship Guidance & Custom Coaching

Online dating promotes self-discovery and independent connection-building, but professional matchmakers take it a step further by offering unwavering support and expert relationship guidance. They serve as your guide and coach as you progress through your relationship, providing invaluable insights on how to craft a lasting, meaningful love story. 

Find Success

With an 87% success rate and over 4,000+ happy couples, Selective Search knows exactly how to help you find love. Matchmaking significantly increases your chances of finding genuine, lasting love by offering a highly personalized, secure, and efficient experience. Spend your time falling in love, not searching for it.  

Selective Search Charlotte Matchmakers have a well cultivated knowledge base about many markets. Allow our team of expert Matchmakers to curate your perfect date.

Top Restaurants

Charlotte Date Ideas

  • Private Art Viewing at The Bechtler Museum of Modern Art: Relish a curated private viewing of modern art masterpieces. Located at 420 S Tryon St, Charlotte, NC 28202. 

  • Yacht Charter on Lake Norman with Carolina Grace Charters: Experience the luxury of chartering your private yacht on Lake Norman. Sip champagne as you cruise along, taking in the beautiful views and enjoying the unparalleled service. Located at 18020 Kings Point Dr, Cornelius, NC 28031.

  • Charlotte Symphony Orchestra Private Viewing: Experience the magic of music by arranging a private viewing or backstage tour of the Charlotte Symphony. Dive deep into the music scene and appreciate the rich sounds of the orchestra in a more intimate setting. Located at 128 S Tryon St, Suite 350, Charlotte, NC 28202.

  • Ballantyne Spa Day at The Ballantyne Hotel: Luxuriate in a world-class spa setting to invigorate your senses. Located at 10000 Ballantyne Commons Pkwy, Charlotte, NC 28277.

  • Exclusive Suite at the Belk Theater: Secure a private suite or VIP box for a ballet, opera, or theatrical performance at this renowned theater for an intimate, luxury experience. Located at 130 N Tryon St, Charlotte, NC 28202. 

The Story of Selective Search

Founded in 2000, Barbie Adler created Selective Search as a way for accomplished singles to find love. Now standing as the leading luxury matchmaking firm, the success of Selective Search has brought thousands of couples together.

One on One Matchmaking Process

A proven six-step process marrying the best of executive search and matchmaking techniques. Selective Search is the professional matchmaking service that delivers results.

The Meet Your Future process was developed from an expansive study of relevant industries such as: executive search, psychology, traditional matchmaking, and sociology. We continue to evolve and develop our best-in-class methods. This innovative process has allowed Selective Search to become the industry leader with an 87% success rate and more than 4,000 happy couples.

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As the premier Charlotte matchmaking service, Selective Search has helped thousands of discerning men and women find love.

“I think that Selective Search, for me, brought a very high level of professionalism that couldn’t have been matched. I think that having Selective Search do the footwork for me was the best thing that ever happened in my life, really. If I didn’t have their help, I never would have met Sonia.” 

— Rod & Sonia 

Start Your Search For Love In Charlotte

Selective Search can help you find the person you’ve been looking for. The question isn’t whether we’ll be able to find them. It’s “How soon would you like to meet them?” 

Complete the confidential inquiry below for a complimentary consultation with a member of our team, or call 866-592-1200.

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The ROI of Love

As the nation’s premier matchmaking service, Selective Search has helped thousands of discerning men and women find love. 

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