SAN FRANCISCO MATCHMAKER SERVICES

The love of your life is waiting

Selective Search has over 150 years of combined Matchmaker experience and has successfully matched over 4,000 couples. Ranked as the best matchmaking service in San Francisco for professionals, Selective Search Matchmakers have proven results building long-term loving relationships for busy, successful individuals who value their time and privacy. 

There are many matchmaker services available in the San Francisco area, but there are none that safeguard your time, privacy, and preferences like Selective Search. Unlike other dating sites or apps, Selective Search is dedicated to building long-term loving relationships for busy professionals just like you. 

Dating in San Francisco

Are you aware that San Francisco, California is one of the premier cities for singles seeking authentic connections? San Francisco is a captivating city for professionals with its thriving tech industry, iconic architecture, vibrant arts scene, and a gastronomic landscape that contends with the country's best. 

Knowing that professionals often have demanding schedules, we've made the effort to provide you with a carefully selected list of the top restaurants and date ideas in the San Francisco area. 

Selective Search. Proven Results.

4000+

happy couples

success rate

87%

34%

love at first date

Why Choose A San Francisco Matchmaker?

A Personalized Approach To Love

Dating apps rely heavily on algorithms and standardized profiles, with an estimated 49 million people in the United States using these services. In contrast, professional matchmaking offers a distinctly personal touch. It is a method meticulously tailored to your unique desires, values, and dreams. Rather than generic connections, matchmaking provides personalized romance. Balancing intuition and technology, luxury matchmaking firms excel at curating personalized matches. 

Access To Exclusive Singles

Elite matchmaking services provide a gateway to a select network of quality and accomplished singles, with potential matches undergoing rigorous vetting to ensure a shared alignment of goals and lifestyle. Notably, we have a proprietary network of over 250,000 high-caliber singles.  

Eliminating Challenges of Dating Apps

Online dating comes with its fair share of challenges. Whether it’s fake profiles, catfishing, or the pressure of crafting the perfect online persona, online dating can make the search for love a stressful experience for many. Professional matchmakers cater to busy professionals who don’t have time to waste on dates without potential. Matchmakers set themselves apart from online dating by conducting comprehensive background checks and ensuring the authenticity of all members, providing a more secure and authentic dating experience for their clients. 

Guaranteed Confidentiality & Reputation Management

Online dating often involves sharing personal information with strangers, leading to concerns about data security. In a study, 53% of online daters reported worries about their personal data's safety on dating apps and websites. In contrast, matchmaking services prioritize privacy and security, offering peace of mind, especially to high-profile individuals who value their safety and confidentiality in the digital dating world. 

Relationship Guidance & Custom Coaching

Online dating promotes self-discovery and independent connection-building, but professional matchmakers take it a step further by offering unwavering support and expert relationship guidance. They serve as your guide and coach as you progress through your relationship, providing invaluable insights on how to craft a lasting, meaningful love story. 

Find Success

With an 87% success rate and over 4,000+ happy couples, Selective Search knows exactly how to help you find love. Matchmaking significantly increases your chances of finding genuine, lasting love by offering a highly personalized, secure, and efficient experience. Spend your time falling in love, not searching for it.  

Selective Search San Francisco Matchmakers have a well cultivated knowledge base about many markets. Allow our team of expert Matchmakers to curate your perfect date.

Top Restaurants

San Francisco Date Ideas

  • Experience the tranquility and beauty of the San Francisco Botanical Garden, a botanical haven with stunning landscapes and a diverse range of exhibits. Located at 1199 9th Ave, San Francisco, CA 94122. 

  • Attend a concert at the San Francisco Symphony: Spend a refined evening with world-class musicians. Located at 201 Van Ness Ave, San Francisco, CA 94102. 

  • Book a Private Suite at The St. Regis San Francisco: Relish a serene afternoon in a private suite with exemplary food and beverage service. Located at 125 3rd St, San Francisco, CA 94103. 

  • Visit the Silver Oak Winery: A short drive from the city, it's worth the trip for a wine tasting at this premium winery. Located at 915 Oakville Crossroad, Oakville, CA 94562. 

  • Book a Private Yacht Charter: Explore the Bay in style with Commodore Cruises & Events. Soak in the stunning views of the city skyline, Golden Gate Bridge, and Alcatraz Island from the comfort of your private yacht while enjoying gourmet dining and exceptional service. Located at 2394 Mariner Square Drive, Alameda, CA 94501. 

  • Attend a performance at the San Francisco Opera, known for its grandeur and varied performances. Located at 301 Van Ness Ave, San Francisco, CA 94102.  

The Story of Selective Search

Founded in 2000, Barbie Adler created Selective Search as a way for accomplished singles to find love. Now standing as the leading luxury matchmaking firm, the success of Selective Search has brought thousands of couples together.

One on One Matchmaking Process

A proven six-step process marrying the best of executive search and matchmaking techniques. Selective Search is the professional matchmaking service that delivers results.

The Meet Your Future process was developed from an expansive study of relevant industries such as: executive search, psychology, traditional matchmaking, and sociology. We continue to evolve and develop our best-in-class methods. This innovative process has allowed Selective Search to become the industry leader with an 87% success rate and more than 4,000 happy couples.

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Luxury Dating Site Clients Paul & Lisa

As the premier San Francisco matchmaking service, Selective Search has helped thousands of discerning men and women find love.

“I can honestly say that I have never been happier in my life. How can I put a price on finding someone I may spend the rest of my life with? I would recommend Selective Search to anyone with the commitment to finding their last first date!”

— Paul & Lisa

Start Your Search For Love In San Francisco

Selective Search can help you find the person you’ve been looking for. The question isn’t whether we’ll be able to find them. It’s “How soon would you like to meet them?” 

Complete the confidential inquiry below for a complimentary consultation with a member of our team, or call 866-592-1200.

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The ROI of Love

As the nation’s premier matchmaking service, Selective Search has helped thousands of discerning men and women find love. 

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