RALEIGH MATCHMAKER SERVICES

The love of your life is waiting

Selective Search has over 150 years of combined Matchmaker experience and has successfully matched over 4,000 couples. Ranked as the best matchmaking service in Raleigh for professionals, Selective Search Matchmakers have proven results building long-term loving relationships for busy, successful individuals who value their time and privacy. 

There are many matchmaker services available in the Raleigh area, but there are none that safeguard your time, privacy, and preferences like Selective Search. Unlike other dating sites or apps, Selective Search is dedicated to building long-term loving relationships for busy professionals just like you. 

Dating in Raleigh

Did you know that Raleigh, North Carolina, is among the prime cities for singles seeking genuine connections? Raleigh allures professionals with its prosperous tech sector, enchanting architecture, dynamic arts scene, and a gastronomic panorama that stands toe-toe with the finest in the country, especially with the presence of Michelin, Bib Gourmand, and James Beard awarded restaurants. 

Acknowledging that professionals often grapple with hectic schedules, we have endeavored to curate an exclusive list of the top-tier restaurants and unique date ideas in the Raleigh area. 

Selective Search. Proven Results.

4000+

happy couples

success rate

87%

34%

love at first date

Why Choose A Raleigh Matchmaker?

A Personalized Approach To Love

Dating apps rely heavily on algorithms and standardized profiles, with an estimated 49 million people in the United States using these services. In contrast, professional matchmaking offers a distinctly personal touch. It is a method meticulously tailored to your unique desires, values, and dreams. Rather than generic connections, matchmaking provides personalized romance. Balancing intuition and technology, luxury matchmaking firms excel at curating personalized matches. 

Access To Exclusive Singles

Elite matchmaking services provide a gateway to a select network of quality and accomplished singles, with potential matches undergoing rigorous vetting to ensure a shared alignment of goals and lifestyle. Notably, we have a proprietary network of over 250,000 high-caliber singles.  

Eliminating Challenges of Dating Apps

Online dating comes with its fair share of challenges. Whether it’s fake profiles, catfishing, or the pressure of crafting the perfect online persona, online dating can make the search for love a stressful experience for many. Professional matchmakers cater to busy professionals who don’t have time to waste on dates without potential. Matchmakers set themselves apart from online dating by conducting comprehensive background checks and ensuring the authenticity of all members, providing a more secure and authentic dating experience for their clients. 

Guaranteed Confidentiality & Reputation Management

Online dating often involves sharing personal information with strangers, leading to concerns about data security. In a study, 53% of online daters reported worries about their personal data's safety on dating apps and websites. In contrast, matchmaking services prioritize privacy and security, offering peace of mind, especially to high-profile individuals who value their safety and confidentiality in the digital dating world. 

Relationship Guidance & Custom Coaching

Online dating promotes self-discovery and independent connection-building, but professional matchmakers take it a step further by offering unwavering support and expert relationship guidance. They serve as your guide and coach as you progress through your relationship, providing invaluable insights on how to craft a lasting, meaningful love story. 

Find Success

With an 87% success rate and over 4,000+ happy couples, Selective Search knows exactly how to help you find love. Matchmaking significantly increases your chances of finding genuine, lasting love by offering a highly personalized, secure, and efficient experience. Spend your time falling in love, not searching for it.  

Selective Search Raleigh Matchmakers have a well cultivated knowledge base about many markets. Allow our team of expert Matchmakers to curate your perfect date.

Top Restaurants

Raleigh Date Ideas

  • Reserve an exclusive behind-the-scenes tour of the North Carolina Museum of Art, with private access to some of the most renowned artworks. Located at 2110 Blue Ridge Rd, Raleigh, NC 27607.

  • Enjoy a personalized spa day at The Umstead Spa, including treatments specifically tailored to your preferences. Located at 100 Woodland Pond Dr, Cary, NC 27513. 

  • Experience a night at the theater with VIP seating and backstage access at Durham Performing Arts Center. Located at 123 Vivian St, Durham, NC 27701. 

  • VIP Night at the Symphony: Enjoy a private, VIP experience at the North Carolina Symphony with backstage access, a meeting with the conductor, and premium seating. Located at 3700 Glenwood Ave #130, Raleigh, NC 27612.

  • Luxury Suite at a Hurricanes Game: Enjoy a Carolina Hurricanes game from the comfort of a private luxury suite, complete with gourmet catering and unbeatable views of the action. Located at PNC Arena, 1400 Edwards Mill Rd, Raleigh, NC 27607. 

The Story of Selective Search

Founded in 2000, Barbie Adler created Selective Search as a way for accomplished singles to find love. Now standing as the leading luxury matchmaking firm, the success of Selective Search has brought thousands of couples together.

One on One Matchmaking Process

A proven six-step process marrying the best of executive search and matchmaking techniques. Selective Search is the professional matchmaking service that delivers results.

The Meet Your Future process was developed from an expansive study of relevant industries such as: executive search, psychology, traditional matchmaking, and sociology. We continue to evolve and develop our best-in-class methods. This innovative process has allowed Selective Search to become the industry leader with an 87% success rate and more than 4,000 happy couples.

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As the premier Raleigh matchmaking service, Selective Search has helped thousands of discerning men and women find love.

“I would say to anyone who has a stigma about using a matchmaker that they’re living in the past. And the biggest regret I have about using Selective Search is not using it soon enough.”

— Rahul

Start Your Search For Love In Raleigh

Selective Search can help you find the person you’ve been looking for. The question isn’t whether we’ll be able to find them. It’s “How soon would you like to meet them?” 

Complete the confidential inquiry below for a complimentary consultation with a member of our team, or call 866-592-1200.

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The ROI of Love

As the nation’s premier matchmaking service, Selective Search has helped thousands of discerning men and women find love. 

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