DETROIT MATCHMAKER SERVICES

The love of your life is waiting

Selective Search has over 150 years of combined Matchmaker experience and has successfully matched over 4,000 couples. Ranked as the best matchmaking service in Detroit for professionals, Selective Search Matchmakers have proven results building long-term loving relationships for busy, successful individuals who value their time and privacy. 

There are many matchmaker services available in the Detroit area, but there are none that safeguard your time, privacy, and preferences like Selective Search. Unlike other dating sites or apps, Selective Search is dedicated to building long-term loving relationships for busy professionals just like you. 

Dating in Detroit

Did you know that Detroit, Michigan is one of the top cities for singles seeking genuine connections? Detroit is an alluring city for professionals with its thriving automotive industry, remarkable architecture, vibrant arts scene, and a culinary landscape that stands toe-to-toe with the nation's best.

Understanding that professionals often have packed schedules, we've taken the step to provide you with a carefully curated list of the finest restaurants and unique date ideas in the Detroit area.  

Selective Search. Proven Results.

4000+

happy couples

success rate

87%

34%

love at first date

Why Choose A Detroit Matchmaker?

A Personalized Approach To Love

Dating apps rely heavily on algorithms and standardized profiles, with an estimated 49 million people in the United States using these services. In contrast, professional matchmaking offers a distinctly personal touch. It is a method meticulously tailored to your unique desires, values, and dreams. Rather than generic connections, matchmaking provides personalized romance. Balancing intuition and technology, luxury matchmaking firms excel at curating personalized matches. 

Access To Exclusive Singles

Elite matchmaking services provide a gateway to a select network of quality and accomplished singles, with potential matches undergoing rigorous vetting to ensure a shared alignment of goals and lifestyle. Notably, we have a proprietary network of over 250,000 high-caliber singles.  

Eliminating Challenges of Dating Apps

Online dating comes with its fair share of challenges. Whether it’s fake profiles, catfishing, or the pressure of crafting the perfect online persona, online dating can make the search for love a stressful experience for many. Professional matchmakers cater to busy professionals who don’t have time to waste on dates without potential. Matchmakers set themselves apart from online dating by conducting comprehensive background checks and ensuring the authenticity of all members, providing a more secure and authentic dating experience for their clients. 

Guaranteed Confidentiality & Reputation Management

Online dating often involves sharing personal information with strangers, leading to concerns about data security. In a study, 53% of online daters reported worries about their personal data's safety on dating apps and websites. In contrast, matchmaking services prioritize privacy and security, offering peace of mind, especially to high-profile individuals who value their safety and confidentiality in the digital dating world. 

Relationship Guidance & Custom Coaching

Online dating promotes self-discovery and independent connection-building, but professional matchmakers take it a step further by offering unwavering support and expert relationship guidance. They serve as your guide and coach as you progress through your relationship, providing invaluable insights on how to craft a lasting, meaningful love story. 

Find Success

With an 87% success rate and over 4,000+ happy couples, Selective Search knows exactly how to help you find love. Matchmaking significantly increases your chances of finding genuine, lasting love by offering a highly personalized, secure, and efficient experience. Spend your time falling in love, not searching for it.  

Selective Search Detroit Matchmakers have a well cultivated knowledge base about many markets. Allow our team of expert Matchmakers to curate your perfect date.

Top Restaurants

Detroit Date Ideas

  • Visit the Detroit Institute of Arts: Immerse yourselves in the breathtaking collections of world-class art. Located at 5200 Woodward Ave, Detroit, MI 48202. 

  • Book a private tour of the Motown Museum: Learn about the rise and impact of the Motown Record Corporation. Located at 2648 W Grand Blvd, Detroit, MI 48208.  

  • Reserve a luxury suite at a Detroit Tigers game: Enjoy a game in style at Comerica Park, complete with a catered menu and private waitstaff. Located at 2100 Woodward Ave, Detroit, MI 48201. 

  • Rent a private yacht for a Detroit River Cruise: Enjoy the sights of the city skyline from a different perspective. Contact Detroit Princess Riverboat at 1 Civic Center Dr, Detroit, MI 48226.

  • Experience the Detroit Symphony Orchestra: Enjoy a world-class performance at the Orchestra Hall. Located at 3711 Woodward Ave, Detroit, MI 48201.  

The Story of Selective Search

Founded in 2000, Barbie Adler created Selective Search as a way for accomplished singles to find love. Now standing as the leading luxury matchmaking firm, the success of Selective Search has brought thousands of couples together.

One on One Matchmaking Process

A proven six-step process marrying the best of executive search and matchmaking techniques. Selective Search is the professional matchmaking service that delivers results.

The Meet Your Future process was developed from an expansive study of relevant industries such as: executive search, psychology, traditional matchmaking, and sociology. We continue to evolve and develop our best-in-class methods. This innovative process has allowed Selective Search to become the industry leader with an 87% success rate and more than 4,000 happy couples.

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As the premier Detroit matchmaking service, Selective Search has helped thousands of discerning men and women find love.

“I would say to anyone who has a stigma about using a matchmaker that they’re living in the past. And the biggest regret I have about using Selective Search is not using it soon enough.”

— Rahul

Start Your Search For Love In Detroit

Selective Search can help you find the person you’ve been looking for. The question isn’t whether we’ll be able to find them. It’s “How soon would you like to meet them?” 

Complete the confidential inquiry below for a complimentary consultation with a member of our team, or call 866-592-1200.

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The ROI of Love

As the nation’s premier matchmaking service, Selective Search has helped thousands of discerning men and women find love. 

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